4.05.2011

The Oldest Profession?

A few weeks ago, evolutionary psychologist Satoshi Kanazawa published this article in Psychology Today with the byline "Is prostitution truly the oldest profession?" ("Do Men Try To Impress Prostitutes", The Scientific Fundamentalist 3/6/11)

According to the article, research has repeatedly shown that humans are not the only species who engage in prostitution.  Female capuchin monkeys and bonobos have both been observed trading sex for "money" or for food which is considered the basic equivalant.  This strongly suggests that prostitution is "evolutionarily familiar" yet Kanazawa also noted other factors which suggested the possibility that prostitution could actually be "evolutionarily novel".

Maggie McNeill immediately noticed some fallacies in his logic that appeared to stem from lack of any real working knowledge on the overall subject of prostitution and surmised that he had never actually met a prostitute.  As she discussed in her column of March 12th, she wrote him an email offering some of her own experience and wisdom; although Maggie's sharp intuition comes as no surprise to anyone who knows her, Kanazawa was amazed at how accurately she had pegged him.  He was very gracious and genuinely interested, I would venture to say that he found the ensuing discussion with a retired prostitute to be an eye opening experience.  The idea that whores are intrinsically no different from other women is one of Maggie's deeply held philosophies; several weeks later Kanazawa published this follow-up article to the original based on their correspondance, titled "Are All Women Prostitutes?  A perspective from someone who knows what she's talking about."

On the other hand, I, somewhat like Kanazawa, am going out on a limb by discussing what I believe to be logical fallacies in his reasoning based on my perceptions of subjects in which my formal knowledge is little to none; evolutionary psychology, psychology, evolution, genetics, cognition, and so on so forth.  Therefore it is my hope that if he at some point reads this he takes it with the grain of salt with which it is meant to be taken :-)

do men try to impress prostitutes

"The deep evolutionary origin of prostitution and prostitutes and thus their evolutionary familiarity suggest that men would not try to impress prostitutes, because they know it is not necessary…If it turns out that men routinely attempt to impress prostitutes before having sex, then it means that prostitution is evolutionarily novel and it is not the world’s oldest profession." -Satoshi Kanazawa, in the original article "Do Men Try To Impress Prostitutes"

It is my opinion that the question of whether prostitution is evolutionarily familiar or evolutionarily novel cannot be answered by the question of whether or not men try to impress prostitutes; in fact the two are completely unrelated.

The desire of one human to impress another has less to do with who he is trying to impress than it has to do with his own ego and need for validation.  It can be argued that men trying to impress women is a mating ritual comparable to a peacock fanning out his plume, but if that's the case than why do heterosexual members of the same sex try to impress each other? 

In the cited example from Superfreakonomics, Allie's (a prostitute) venture capitalist client didn't try to impress her by bringing her flowers or jewelry.  Instead, he attempted to impress her with intellectualism and common interests, which could have been used to impress anyone, potential sexual partner or not.  Clearly the human desire to impress others is more than a simple mating ritual.  Note that the desire to impress others is equivalant to the desire to be admired, respected, and liked.  If someone is impressed by another individual then they by definition admire, respect, or like him.

Everyone wants to be liked, therefore everyone is constantly trying to impress everyone else to a certain degree.  Additionally, most men feel a strong biological need to feel admired by a sexual partner.  Her status as a prostitute is irrelevant.  Most, if not all, of my gentlemen friends try to impress me in one way or another.  They are always complimentary, often bring small gifts or tokens of appreciation, and many read this column.  All are unfailingly polite and conduct themselves as gentlemen because they want me to like them and more importantly, they want me to enjoy the experience.  In addition to their need to feel admired, most men also have a strong biological need to feel they have satisfied their partner.

the genetic factor

Kanazawa goes on to state that if prostitution is indeed evolutionarily familiar that men's brains ought to be able to recognize prostitutes. 

Ever notice how certain women simply exude more sex appeal than most?  Or ones who seemingly stand out in any crowd?  Amanda Brooks first discussed the possibility of the genetic prostitute in her article "A Natural History of the Prostitute".

Hypothetically speaking, if men's brains are in fact programmed to recognize a prostitute there must be genetic prostitutes, and a true genetic prostitute must be programmed in some special way to make them recognizable.  This would not mean that prostitutes in today's society are necessarily of the genetic sort.  If genetic prostitutes do in fact exist I would expect them to be scattered throughout society due to the fact that whore stigma and criminalization has made life quite difficult for the traditional prostitute.  A few could almost certainly be found among modern working girls, however many more might be found living the good life* in a nice home, caring for their children, and attending to the needs of their husbands who in return take care of the family's needs (*see Andrea in the comments section of that link).  Or perhaps one might find a genetic prostitute saying something like "I am an excellent housekeeper.  When I get a divorce, I keep the house" (-Zsa Zsa Gabor).  Hollywood might be a good place to look if one was actively seeking out one of these fascinating creatures.  I'm pretty sure if genetic prostitutes actually do exist that a few could even be found on my blogroll to the right.

the intelligence factor

Data indicating that intelligent men are more likely to have ever paid for sex at first suggested to Kanazawa that prostitution may be evolutionarily novel:

"Intelligent men are more likely to have had sex with a prostitute than less intelligent men.  According to the logic of the Hypothesis (Kanazawa's hypothesis), this suggests that prostitution is evolutionarily novel and there were no prostitutes in the ancestral environment."
Maggie had another idea, indicating that this fact also has no bearing on the question of evolutionary familiarity:

"Intelligent men are less likely to believe in silly propaganda against us, and less likely to have the kind of fragile masculine ego which would be wounded by "having to pay for it."  The intelligent man knows that "free tail is the most expensive kind," and can make the reasonable and pragmatic decision to spend his money on a "sure thing" rather than chasing women whose price and quality are uncertain." *
Well, now that that's settled...

*For anyone suffering from cognitive impairment, here is the English-to-Stupid translation: Stupid men are too stupid to realize how much money they spend chasing after women who don't put out.  All they know is that they are better than men who pay to have sex with whores!

prostitution: familiar or novel?

Despite (or perhaps due in part to) some basic differences in our philosophies, it was definitely refreshing to see an "academic" with an open mind.  Lately, it sadly seems that too many people simply prefer to remain close-minded, even when it becomes painfully obvious that their rigid belief systems and long treasured misconceptions are essentially rooted in the Dark Ages.  It is difficult for me to grasp the idea that a highly intelligent, well educated person such as Kanazawa genuinely understood so little about whores; in fact this concept is probably just as fascinating to me as talking to a retired whore was to him.  It certainly explains a lot about how people's misconceptions about prostitutes allow them to believe the most outlandish of lies.

Following his contact with Maggie he writes:

"Prostitution is evolutionarily familiar, because mating is evolutionarily familiar and prostitutes (at least the classy ones) are no different from other women, whom men also have to pay – not in cash payments but in dinners and movies, gifts, flowers, chocolates, and motor oil – if they wanted to impress them enough to have sex with them."
Prostitutes most certainly are not any different from other women, much like black people are no different from whites.  Human beings are human beings, and whore stigma is just another prejudice which hopefully will soon be equally as unacceptable as prejudices stemming from skin color or sexual orientation.  In regards to evolutionary familiarity however I think that his statement is only partially correct.

Advocates for sex workers rights consider decriminalization of prostitution a labor rights issue because prostitution is an occupation no different from any other.  One hires a prostitute much like one hires a hairstylist, mechanic, or home health care provider.  Each trades their particular service for compensation.

The original form of trade was barter; as I see it, the answer to Kanazawa's question lies in the evolutionary origin of barter and the evolutionary development of the species who built an entire world around it.

Since I don't buy into ridiculous notions of social construction of gender, I simply assume that males of our ancestry were more inclined towards hunting and females preferred caring for their young.  At the lower levels of consciousness on which I assume our earliest ancestors operated they would have been aware of their physical needs: the need to eat, the need to sleep, and the need to have sex, and perhaps also aware that those around them shared the same needs.  It is quite logical that barter began with the convienient exchange of physical needs - food and sex.  It is unknown at what point in the evolution of the genus homo that barter actually began, however it is probable that barter is older than language.  According to my line of logic, prostitution is evolutionarily familiar because barter is evolutionarily familiar and barter is only possible within the extent of the realm of consciousness. 

Does this mean that prostitution is in fact the oldest profession?  Not quite.  By definition, compensation of some sort must be involved in order for anyone to actually prostitute themselves and so hunting and gathering must have preceded prostitution.  Regardless, there is a possibility that human prostitution is almost as old as the oldest of our homo ancestors; homo habilis first appeared approximately 2 million years ago.  Language most likely came into being about 200,000 years ago with the advent of homo sapiens and since we already ascertained that barter is most likely older than language, it can be logically inferred that barter as well as prostitution are most likely somewhere between 200,000 and 2 million years old.

3.31.2011

Dear Ms. Davis

From: Kelly James <kelly@sincerelykelly.com>
To: press@manhattanmadam.com
Subject: Misrepresentation of gross proportions

Dear Ms. Kristin Davis / "Manhattan Madam" Staff,

“The women who worked for me chose to be sex workers,” said Davis. “80% of the women working as escorts are doing so against their will,”

That statement is pure fallacy of unbelievably gross proportions.  It is not only unethical to spread such misinformation among the public, it is irresponsible to the point of downright negligence, extremely harmful to each and every sex worker across the United States, and seriously counterproductive for the entire sex worker rights movement and those of us who invest a lot of time trying to dispel such lies.  Not to mention completely and totally hypocritical.  Ms. Davis ought to be ashamed of herself as should every single one of you.

Let me make sure I'm getting this straight.  According to Ms. Davis, 80% of women working as escorts - many of whom I must point out are INDEPENDENT - are doing so against their will, but the women who worked for her, who gave her a portion of their earnings as an agency fee, who supported her lifestyle for how many years?  Those women chose to be sex workers!  Meanwhile - let me guess - the rest of us are too drug addled, uneducated, and mentally incompetent to make the same choice to be sex workers that the women who worked for Ms. Davis made?

Or did Ms. Davis simply make such a statement to garner publicity and public approval?

The Village Voice recently published an article detailing the grave errors of methodology prevalant in trafficking "studies" conducted by organizations such as the Shapiro Group.

Based on studies done in New Zealand where prostitution is decriminalized (which gives them the ability to conduct actual scientifically based studies on the subject), this is quite likely the most accurate information concerning sex trafficking in the US currently available.

Along with many other advocates for sex workers rights across the country, I am sick and tired of the misinformation and blatant lies being propegated by those who must either be shockingly ignorant or so desperate to forward their own agendas that they are willing to forego every last semblance of ethics in order to do so.

Kelly James

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Ms. Davis can rest assured that although she will never hold the title of Governor or Mayor she certainly holds the title of Asshole of the Month. 

This woman is to whores what the proverbial "oreo cookie" is to blacks.

3.27.2011

"Lawman" on the Loose

The Enforcement Support division of the Maricopa County Sheriff's Office Posse provides backup and support for the Sheriff during crucial law enforcement operations.  They often transport arrestees, secure crime scenes, and provide traffic control. "Qualified" members are permitted to carry a firearm and partner with deputies on patrol.  Other listed duties include assisting with law enforcement activities required in the event of natural disasters or threats to homeland security, helping with missing persons searches, working with deputies serving warrants, with detention officers searching for contraband in detention centers, and members are sometimes commissioned to work on special duty assignments such as auto theft or arson. 

The Posse is supported by member dues and donations from local corporations and individuals.  All members are volunteers, required to be at least 18 (21 to be armed), have a valid Arizona drivers license, and be in good mental and physical health.  They are subjected to background checks and cannot have any record of criminal history or record of improper personal conduct that could potentially affect their suitability for law enforcement work.


Steven Seagal: Lawman or lawbreaker?
At the scene of a recent MCSO operation, a new Posse recruit dressed in full army fatigues exits a military style MCSO armored vehicle.  He is followed by a camera crew.

"Steven Seagal, Lawman" is a reality show on the A&E network which premiered in late 2009, documenting the actor's work as a volunteer Sheriff's Deputy in Jefferson Parish County, Louisiana.  While he claims he was trained to perform police duties and that he earned a certificate from Peace Officer Standards & Training (POST) in Los Angeles, neither POST officials in California nor in Louisiana have any record of this, despite the fact that the actor had served various short stints as a Jefferson Parish deputy over the past twenty years.

Seagal also claims to be "one of the highest ranking Akido instructors in the world".  According to the LA Times, he would participate in martial arts training sessions for deputies in Jefferson Parish. "You can look at me as a movie star, and say, 'Hey, Steven Seagal here. He a movie star,' " he told a group of deputies about to undergo training. "Or you can wipe that . . . out of your head and say, 'Steven Seagal can save my life.' "

He also claims to be a "world class marksman".

In April of 2010, all filming of the show was stopped by the Jefferson Parish Sheriff due to a lawsuit filed against Seagal by his former assistant Kayden Nguyen, charging him with sexual harassment and sex trafficking, among other infractions. 

The accusations against Seagal include: pushing his hands under her shirt and attempting to fondle her bare breasts, grabbing her leg and forcing it over his body and then forcing his hand down her pants between her bare buttocks, forcibly holding her legs apart, forcing his hand down her pants into her vagina, continuing the forcible penetration of her vagina until she sobbed so loudly that he stopped, and forcing her to consume illegal pills.  In the lawsuit it was stated that Nguyen was hired to be Seagal's executive assistant but "what the production company really wanted was an 'Attendant' to provide sex on demand to Mr. Seagal'".  The lawsuit can be found here in it's entirety, courtesy of TMZ.

According to the lawsuit, these incidents took place at the house where Nguyen was required to stay while performing her duties as Seagal's assistant.  Allegedly, when Nguyen quit the job and left the house, she was so desperate to leave that she left behind her car keys, all her clothes, her laptop computer, and several hundred dollars worth of makeup.  She claimed that Seagal's production staff refused to return her possessions unless she signed a release promising not to sue.

Seagal's lawyer, of course, attempted to discredit his client's accuser by claiming she was "fired for using illegal narcotics".  Two other women including the granddaughter of Ray Charles came forward with sworn statements alleging that they had been victims of similar misconduct by Seagal.

There was no reason given when the lawsuit was dropped in July of 2010.  It has been well documented that Seagal's attorneys had been trying to resolve the case through private arbitration.

Although Jefferson Parish Sheriff Newell Normand had invited Nguyen to file criminal charges against Seagal at the same time he had stopped production of the show, those charges were never filed.  Nyguen's attorney, William Waldo, claimed that she feared the Jefferson Parish Police because Seagal was a member.

However, the JPSO was not dismissing the issue .  Sheriff Normand stated that "Seagal was facing an internal affairs investigation immediately following the outcome of his lawsuit.  He refused to return to Jefferson Parish, at which time he tendered his resignation."

This isn't the first time Seagal has been accused of similar misconduct.  Various public claims have been made against the actor since 1995.  Ex wife Kelly LeBrock has said she wasn't surprised by the latest accusations against him.  Jenny McCarthy has openly stated that he harassed her during a movie audition in 1998.  The New York Post published an article with yet more claims documenting his blatant misconduct.  MacarelloLaw.com lists Steven Seagal v. Cheryl Shuman among their successes, having won dismissal with prejudice on Seagal's behalf in the sexual harassment and wrongful termination claim brought against him by Shuman during filming of “On Deadly Ground” in 1995, also documented by the NY Daily News.

Sexual harassment isn't the only rumor that has plagued the actor-turned-lawman over the years.  In 2002-03, the Smoking Gun, People Magazine, and the LA Times reported that the FBI had implicated Seagal in Mafia related threats against an LA Times reporter.  Seagal has stated that the FBI's claims "killed his career".

Unfortunately for residents of Maricopa County, he was wrong.  Since being expropriated from Jefferson Parish, he has joined the ranks of the MCSO Posse and made Maricopa County the new home of "Steven Seagal, Lawman".

I don't think I need to overly emphasize the brevity of a situation where a person of such questionable moral character is given the authority that is given to MCSO Posse members.  The potential for abuse of that authority is quite significant especially towards marginalized minorities such as illegal immigrants or sex workers, both who have absolutely no recourse against police abuse due to criminalization and prejudice.  There is good reason that Posse members are held to such strict standards of qualification and it's painfully apparent that Seagal doesn't measure up. 

All else aside, the fashion in which he parted ways with the Jefferson Parish Sheriff's Office speaks volumes.  A deputy as dedicated to his organization as Seagal claimed to be to the JPSO wouldn't have been so quick to resign his position, and a true "Lawman" would have used any investigation as an opportunity to clear his name once and for all.

3.22.2011

Where Men And Mountains Meet

Over the past couple months I have become a big fan of Big Love.  For the most part I don't really care for television and consider it Big Brother's most powerful avenue for the mass brainwashing of American society, the last TV show I regularly watched was the first season of Criss Angel's Mindfreak.  Big Love, however, got me to think.  What it got me to think about, as I discussed in a previous post, is that perhaps polygamy is simply a consensual crime which, much like prostitution, is grossly misrepresented in our society.

I was particularly struck by the scene in last night's series finale (somewhere in the middle of the video below) when, closely following both his speech at the state sponsored demolition of the Juniper Creek compound and his arrest for polygamy and statutory rape of his third wife Margene, Sen. Bill Henrickson takes the senate floor.

Sen. Henrickson: "Juniper Creek is a grotesque manifistation of the Principle.  It's been allowed to fester and bloom like a cancer in the dark closet of illegality.  I wish to offer an amendment to decertification of Juniper Creek...the legalization of polygamy.  An act for the legalization of plural marriage - a 19th century ban that's based in comparing polygamy to religious murder...and actual human sacrifice and murder doesn't even pass the stink test.

Another senate member chimes in: "In this respect it does.  It is a remnant of a neolithic time, something from the dark ages that enslaves women ...."

Sen. Henrickson: "For 50 years, the Utah territory, a polygamist territory, was progressive, idealistic.  Our polygamist women demanded and recieved the right to vote decades before the rest of this nation and it was this chamber that stripped them of their voices when they voted to make polygamy illegal, casting them into the shadows and then turning their backs on them..."

Sen. Henrickson's first wife Barb speaks from the public gallery, directing her words towards the senate member who had interrupted her husband: "And you're not one to talk.  Your LDS religion suppresses women as well, excommunicating us for speaking out.  And attempting to bury the Mother in Heaven doctrine!"

(is this beginning to sound familiar?)

Sen. Henrickson: "For the first time in 120 years this body and this state will discuss and debate the merits of the legalization of polygamy.  And failure to do so lays it's abuses, it's victims, at your feet, not ours.  We have stepped out of the shadows and demand our day in the sun."





The character of Sen. Bill Henrickson, for all his shortcomings, was a visionary willing to stand up for what he believed in the hopes of bringing change and I was sorry to see poor Bill killed off in the final episode of the series.

As for polygamy, while it occurred to me that I hypothetically might be better off in a plural marriage with the fictional character of Bill Henrickson than with the now permanant ex that has been giving me so much grief, I am quite certain it is not for me, just as sex work isn't right for everyone.  I once experimented with a polyamorous relationship with a married couple whom I used to refer to as my "sugar couple" and it was more than enough.  Besides, I definitely have no desire to convert to Mormonism, but hell, to each their own. 

Just don't come knocking at my door and I won't come knocking at yours, right Brandy?  LOL

3.19.2011

Weathered

I lie awake on a long, dark night
I can't seem to tame my mind
Slings and arrows are killing me inside
Maybe I can't accept the life that's mine,
No... maybe I can't accept the life that's mine

Simple living is my desperate cry
Been trading "love" with indifference an' yeah it suits me just fine
I try to hold on but I'm calloused to the bone
Maybe that's why I feel alone?
Yeah, Maybe that's why I feel so alone.

Me... I'm rusted and weathered
Barely holding together
I'm covered with skin that peels and it just won't heal

I'm rusted and weathered
Barely holding together
I'm covered with skin that peels and it just won't heal.

No... It just wont heal.

The sun shines and I can't avoid the light
I think I'm holding on to life too tight
Ashes to ashes and dust to dust
Sometimes I feel like giving up
Yeah, I say... Sometimes I feel like giving up

Me...I'm rusted and weathered
Barely holding together
I'm covered with skin that peels, and it just won't heal

I'm rusted and weathered
Barely holding together
I'm covered with skin that peels, and it just won't heal.

It just wont heal.
Oh...

The day reminds me of you
The night hides your truth
The earth is a voice
Speaking to you
Take all this pride
And leave it behind
cuz' one day it ends
One day we die
Believe what you will
That is your right
But I choose to win
I choose to fight...
To fight

Me... I'm rusted and weathered
Barely holding together
I'm covered with skin that peels and it just wont heal.

I'm rusted and weathered
Barely holding together
I'm covered with skin that peels and it just wont...
Covered with skin that peels and it just wont...
Covered with skin that peels and it just wont heal.

-Creed

2.28.2011

Of Prostitution and Polygamy

Prostitution of the Constitution Part III


At first glance prostitution and polygamy might seem to be direct opposites; theoretically either might drastically reduce demand for the other.  In practice however the two share much common ground from stereotypes to archetypes to underlying principles of individual rights that affect every citizen in this country, even those who would never even consider either to be an acceptable lifestyle.


The Archetype

The archetype of man as polygamist is as old as the profession of whoredom as demonstrated in the Book of Genesis: "Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar.  And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.  And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife"  (Genesis 16:1-3).  In King Solomon's case, his seven hundred wives were a sign of his great wealth.  Of course prostitutes are well represented in the Bible from Rahab to Mary Magdalene who in my opinion was a prostitute after all, but not a repentant one ;)

Polygamy and prostitution have both thrived since.  Today polygamy is legal and widely practiced in Africa, Kenya, Nigeria, South Africa, Sudan, Asia, South Asia, and Saudi Arabia.  Prostitution, well, that's everywhere.  The question this raises is if man is by nature a monogamous creature.   Perhaps that is best answered by example of the so called serial monogamy prevalent in our culture.  Our practice of marriage, kids, divorce, remarriage and so on has actually been referred to as slow-motion polygyny.


The Stereotype

Although the glamourized pimp-n-ho culture is not at all grounded in the actual realities of sex work, in that culture the pimp's hoes refer to each other as "wife-in-laws"; eerily similar to the widely popularized polygamist term of "sister wives".  Pimps and hoes refer to their lifestyle as "the game" or "the life" while fundamentalist Mormon polygamists refer to theirs as "the principle".  Both discourage females asserting dominant roles, the extent to which submission is expected depends on the particular situation.  There are polygamist sectors who force arranged marriages on their womenfolk just as a pimp forces a prostitute to sell her body.  There are pimps who prey on vulnerable, underage girls.  There are polygamists who do the same.

All of the above are stereotypes of various levels of depth.  Prostitution and polygamy have certainly both earned some pretty negative reputations due to those who use them for ill intent.

Any consenting adult sex worker would laugh at the idea promoted by the antis that all sex workers are coerced into sex work by pimps and traffickers.  The vast majority of sex workers are in fact consenting adults.  They do not have pimps or wife-in-laws nor do they consider their job a "game".  They become sex workers for a wide variety of reasons but for the vast majority it is a conscious choice.

There are approximately 38,000 active polygamists in the United States.  Since they are in fact polygamists it is probably fair to assume that females outnumber the males by a 2:1 ratio, therefore according to that figure there should be around 25,000 women living a polygamist lifestyle in this country today.  For the vast majority of them it too is a conscious choice, although they may in fact consider it to be a principle as well.


Every Individual's Right

Each individual has the inalienable right to life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness.  The fashion in which one individual or even most individuals are compelled to further their lives and pursue happiness is not necessarily how every individual is going to be compelled to do so.  Since no individual is any more or less important than the next, what gives anyone the right to dictate what any other consenting adult can or cannot do to pursue their own happiness?  Because the individual's right to their own life is recognized in the principles of this country, we are granted the right to have our own beliefs and the right to live according to those beliefs. 

What if the proverbial shoe was on the other foot?  What if the majority of this country practiced polygamy and monogamy was illegal?  That would be ridiculous.  How about if it were legal to be a prostitute but illegal to be a political lobbyist?

Would you ask this guy for sex advice?

In the past year, Nevada Senator Harry Reid (pictured above) has launched attacks on both prostitution and polygamy as demonstrated here and here.

"These people who are doing this — many of them are doing things that are immoral, and in many instances illegal.......I think we have an obligation to help these women and children who are being victimized."

Wait...was Senator Reid talking about prostitution or polygamy?  Does it really even matter?

Who the hell is he to tell someone else what they can or cannot do with their own physical being?  He's trying to tell me that I can't fuck who I want when I want?  Or is he only placing the stipulations that a) I can't accept money from someone I fuck and b) I can't fuck someone who is fucking someone else?

If he can stipulate that, what stops him from stipulating c) I can only fuck between the hours of 9pm and 6am, d) I can only fuck a member of the opposite sex, or e) I can only get fucked in my pussy?

I wouldn't be surprised if Harry wanted me to save my ass just for him so he can continue fucking it without interruption.

The violation of one individual's rights equals the violation of all individuals' rights and so apparently Senator Harry Reid thinks he has the right to dictate the sexual conduct of every citizen of America.

Somehow I don't think that's in the "senator" job description.

2.27.2011

President Obama is February Asshole of the Month

The following is an excerpt from the President's very own agenda!

"Often the best source of information about waste, fraud, and abuse in government is an existing government employee committed to public integrity and willing to speak out. Such acts of courage and patriotism, which can sometimes save lives and often save taxpayer dollars, should be encouraged rather than stifled. We need to empower federal employees as watchdogs of wrongdoing and partners in performance. Barack Obama will strengthen whistleblower laws to protect federal workers who expose waste, fraud, and abuse of authority in government. Obama will ensure that federal agencies expedite the process for reviewing whistleblower claims and whistleblowers have full access to courts and due process."

Wait a second....Last time I checked, the government funds the military.  This makes soldiers government employees.

Anyone know where I'm going with this yet?

Although he states that whistleblowing is a courageous and patriotic act and pledges to protect government employees who expose fraud and abuse in government, Bradley Manning remains at Quantico Military Prison and President Obama has yet to do a damn thing to protect him, much less to ensure that his claims are reviewed for legitimacy or that he has any access to due process at all.


A few more quotes from Obama's agenda

"As president, Barack Obama will restore the American people's trust in their government by making government more open and transparent."

"....But at its core, this issue is about who we are as Americans. It's about whether this nation is going to live up to its founding promise of equality by treating all its citizens with dignity and respect."

"....help address police brutality and accountability issues in local communities."

"Fight attacks on workers' right to organize"

"Protect striking workers"

"Getting Politics out of Intelligence"

"Change the Culture of Secrecy"

"Too often bills are rushed through Congress and to the president before the public has the opportunity to review them."


Liar, liar, pants on fire

Every President makes promises he can't keep.  That's simply the nature of the game.  This is (supposedly) a democracy, not a dictatorship, and so the President's every wish is not at his command.  What irritates me about Obama is on a broader scale; clearly principles mean nothing to him.  Not only isn't he doing what he promised but he is actually doing the opposite.  His most basic principles change according to social and political climate.  This is what makes him Asshole of the Month. 

"I am in this race to tell the corporate lobbyists that their days of setting the agenda in Washington are over. I have done more than any other candidate in this race to take on lobbyists — and won. They have not funded my campaign, they will not run my White House, and they will not drown out the voices of the American people when I am president."

Uh huh. 

What a crock of shit.

2.21.2011

Kelly Updated

I've been in kind of a strange place personally of late, accounting for my lack of writing this month!  Not a bad place, just a strange place; uncharacteristically uninspired I suppose.

My attention has also been focused on several other projects, one being the revamping of my escort website.  I took some new pictures and put together a whole new website that I feel relates better to this one in both design and overall tone, connecting my professional and personal personas and better completing my brand of myself as me LOL. 

Another project I have been contemplating is the all new SWOP - Phoenix and exactly what I would like to do with it as an organization.  I have finished the website template, although it is as of right now only a bare bones template with absolutely no information except for my mission statement so please excuse the disarray!  I am looking forward to the opportunity to build the website and my vision as well as the opportunity to work with the wonderful folks over at SWOP.

So, that's where I've been at!  Around.  Still right here. 

Thank you all for your continuing support. 

2.10.2011

My thoughts on "Selling The Girl Next Door"

Read this and this.

Why the fuck is a 13 year old sex trafficking victim brought to court chained and shackled?  Why is a 13 year old sex trafficking victim locked up in jail and not allowed to go home....indefinitely?  Why is it that in the "land of the free" ANY victim is treated as a criminal?

I dunno....but I'll venture a guess - perhaps an attempt at early modification of socially deviant behavior?

But...it's for her own good!  (ahem.  The good of whom?  at whose expense?)

Go feed that crap to someone else.  Here's what I noticed...

First off, the mother of the girl in this story is a bitch.

Personally, I think any mother who leaves her 13 year old daughter in jail is a bitch in spite of the possibility that she might run away again if allowed to come home.

It’s a damn shame when a 13 year old girl would rather go back to an abusive pimp than deal with her mom and the system.  Just sayin'.

This is clearly being presented as a case of drug addiction.  Now, I've known some crackheads who would do just about anything for a hit.  On the other hand, I (many years ago!) had quite the cocaine habit yet would have had nothing to do with any pimp, preferring instead to earn my own money and buy my own drugs.  A very subtle difference, yes, but a difference nevertheless.  The stereotype of an addict is absolutely a stereotype; the actualities vary depending on the addict.  Justifying the imprisonment of this girl based upon drug use is fallacy of logic.

Note that we have no indication of what drugs she was supposedly using.  I've tried just about every one in the book with the exception of heroin and experienced no side effects of uncontrollable desires to run into the arms of an abusive pimp.  However I have known several heroin addicts and lemme tell you what - if she was hooked on heroin and thrown into juvenile detention center to detox - that would be considered cruel and unusual punishment...of a criminal.  Of course, the girl is a victim.

All this only demonstrates how miserable her home life must have been.  She's in jail because of concern that she might prefer life with a pimp to life with her mom.

Here's a brilliant idea: take the public funds currently used to investigate, prosecute, and imprison consenting adult sex workers and instead use that money to implement programs to help and support unhappy teens who are otherwise susceptible to predators such as pimps and traffickers!

Or perhaps those resources would be better used to apprehend the pimps and traffickers?  Why aren't we out catching those motherfuckers and putting THEM in jail?

2.08.2011

This is terrific...

I borrowed it from Maggie's....


2.07.2011

The Land Of Opportunity

According to expert sources, there is a pimp on every street corner of America.

Perhaps that's because the criminalization of sex work creates a veritable Land of Opportunity for sex traffickers, pimps, and other opportunists. 

The world of sex work is every opportunist's dream.  The grass is green the sun is shining and there is an endless supply of unsuspecting people to take advantage of.  Why?  The same reason that sex workers are so often the victims of violence - because it's sex work and sex work is illegal.

This immediately presents two obvious issues: 1) Private consenting sex work must be decriminalized for the sake of the preservation of every individual's rights.  2) Until that is accomplished, all sex workers, potential sex workers, and allies of sex workers must learn to recognize and protect themselves and each other against opportunists.

The first rule of recognizing an opportunist is to understand that an opportunist will not seem to be an opportunist.


Will The Real Ruby Scarlet Please Stand Up? 

Here in my little corner of the world, the concept of PAAC (Professional Alliance of Adult Companions) was recently introduced by "anonymous" individuals using the pseudonym "Ruby Scarlet".  It is now known as Pillow Talk.

Clearly, things are not always as they seem. 
Welcome to the Land of Opportunity....